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Ideally, if you're fat, you want your partner to be fat as well. Matching concept (not accounting jargon) plays an important role. Society placed pressure on fat people. Honestly, who wants to be fat? And why not it is good when a person has no excessive fats in his body.
Based on observation, most of the averaged weight would brand a person who has no excess fats as thin. Seriously, the trend is changing...psychologically, this is how it goes. When you're fat, your ideal partner would be something similar as you. But its kinda fortunate for me to be on this shape. I remember when I was fat, I was a total weak person (get sick easily and no motivation to exercise;gets tired easily). I prefer myself now rather than being fat.